Silence Is Golden???

Ever since I was growing up, I heard this a lot that being silent is more powerful, you do not have to say or react to things etc. etc. And now when I would say I have seen half the world and how it functions,the above statement seems like a myth to me. Or may be this is something we try to teach children while growing up thinking that we are inculcating great values in them.

I have met variety of people in my journey called life, I have also had my share of experiences good or bad, and I have learnt only one thing that you should speak up if you think that certain situation or people demand voice. I have kept quiet on number of such occasions mainly for the love of people who were yes I would stress “WERE” in my life. I did not wanted to loose them so I chose not to say a word. Now, if I opt to quote the incidents out here it would sound more like an autobiography so let them be. But all I want to say here is Silence is not golden but words are. It is not the matter of justice or injustice, neither am I talking about moral values, my point here is if your heart says something and believes in it speak up do not worry that you will loose a person. In life anyways nothing is permanent, the people for whom you are so worried and wants to hold on will anyways will be no longer with you at the times when you need them the most. The sentence here may seem harsh but it is the bitter reality.

I will not say that I am a very nice human being, I am not, there are some dark sides of my personality too but whenever in life I had been with people I loved I really did tried hard to be with them or save my relationship with them but at the end it did not mattered to them, when they had to crush the relationship, feelings they did. So today I think what was the use of me being quite, I should have said something atleast when I thought that other person is not being wise. Today out of all I pity myself a lot, that I really made a fool out of me by not ushering a word at the time of need, and now as once I heard from a family member “This ship has sailed” means time has gone. Definitely I cannot bring back the time but may be I can learn from my mistakes or may be not time will only tell.

So goodbye folks, with a heavy heart see ya until next time🙏