All the names that you give yourselves or those that others call you are just labels, you are not defined by them no matter how flattering or uncomplimentary they are. What defines you genuinely is your heart.
Redefine yourself if you have to but do it on your own terms and just get on with it. Don’t forget where you came from, please don’t forget who really are. It’s ought to be the compass by which you navigate through life’s institutes, that keeps you oriented despite the series of misfortunes and showers of privilege.
Whatever it is that is pulling you back it’s not going away unless you stand up and start forging your own path with all your might in the opposite direction, stop whining and start moving so to speak. Sadness and happiness are the same qualities of transience, life is a balance exchange of one with the other. Don’t attach yourself to either, they both are going to change with the same certitude, take them with the ephemeral spirit of their impermanence and manage them with the healthy dose of good human, laugh at yourself when you are despairing.
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Tripts