acceptance – Page 2

Love…

Recently I was re watching “Nishabd”. Back in 2007 when the movie released, I was also critical of Mr.Bachchan and the movie as well. However, today I think Love is love, it does not understand any barriers, be it age, religion, caste, creed, community or even gender. There is nothing legal or moral when it comes to Love. May be that’s why it is said “Everything is fair in love”.

So what if a 70 year old man fell in love with a 20 year old girl. Even if he is married and has a 20 year old daughter. Love is a feeling, it is a beautiful emotion. When it overpowers you, it does not see anything else but only your heart. Even if you are married for 30 years, there is a possibility that your heart might beat for someone you just meet. But why is it difficult for society to accept that Love is Love beyond anyone’s restrictions and expectations.

You feel for someone strongly and express it. Why you have to criticise or abandon him or her. Your heart and soul belongs to an individual per say, no one else should have a say in it. Love should be treated with love and not with hatred and judgements. When I watched the movie, I couldn’t understand why the wife and daughter had to abandon him filled with hatred and disgust. He liked being in someone’s company. It made him happy, it should not be termed as cheating on his wife.

It is strange to see people being so judgemental about it. Guys, always be supportive of Love, irrespective of how and which form it is coming. Everyone has the right to feel it. Though I as an individual has always experienced pain in it still I would say that it is a beautiful emotion and I completely believe and support it’s sanctity.

So feel love, believe in love and embrace love.

Love

Tripts…

Blame game???

Why I am writing this blog is simply because off lately lot of my known ones have been messaging me that you have complains from everyone, you are very negative, and moreover we fear that someday you might mention us as well. It’s funny that people here, my loved ones failed to recognise the pain behind the emotions I am penning down. I hereby state that I will refrain from writing my life’s experiences. Whatever I was writing here were my life experiences wherein I fail to speak up at the right time and was ridiculed lot many times. Today I just try to recollect them and write it over here.

As I have mentioned in my first post that I have been a child of depression since when I don’t remember. I was living in shadow of my brother who I thought would always be there for me in my thick and thin but that didn’t happen. Lot many times when I could have said things I was asked to be quiet and today I feel restless when those memories haunt me. Someone inside me shouts why the hell did you kept your mouth shut at that time. It is also not letting me move on.

But I completely understand this world is made up of fake people and whether I like it or not I have to be fake so I promise not to share any of my experiences here but yes I will keep on writing and sharing my thoughts on the relevant issues. So my dear and near ones you all can relax. If silence is what it takes to give a feel good factor to everyone, I will oblige. However, remember one thing “Distance does not separate people Silence does “.

And if I may quote here “To be silent, in hopes of not offending, in hopes of being accepted. BUT what happened to people who never raised their voices and kept everything inside, a part of them died, they didn’t lived they survived “ And I here want to LIVE. In short you don’t have to struggle in silence. I will still not be silent but still will talk about me less so that people around me aren’t uncomfortable. Because my soul is made up of EMPATHY and I understand 🌸

Love to all

Tripts

Happy Independence Day????

One must be wondering why question mark, well this is a question we should ask to ourselves, are we really independent? Or just like a tradition since 1947 we are celebrating it without really realising the meaning.

Yes, our country did got freedom on 15th August, 1947 from Britishers, but if you really ask me we were really better off in the rule of britishers. People might call me anti patriotic now, but that’s fine. If calling out names to each other in the name of religion, if raping a minor and getting away with it just because you are some high class Brahmin or priest, if murdering a poor woman’s son just because he married a rich bureaucrat daughter and getting away with it, all this is nationalism for you then am happy that I am anti national.

We need to be independent in our thoughts, in our actions, and then if we wish someone Happy Independence Day, it would seem more genuine and from heart. Today looking the state of law and order in our country, the way our politicians behave, our country seems more dependent then ever before. Where is the independence? Women in our country is not safe. Poor labourers sleeping on pavement is run over by four wheeler by some A grade actor and getting away with it, and giving the feeling that these labourers life has no value, is what we call independence, then I so wish I was born in britishers rule. There is still time for all of us to really get independence in true sense, wait for the time to come and then we all can say Happy Independence Day🌸

Love you all my independent peeps ❤️

Tripts