This is one question I have come across like millions of times “Are you a Virgin”. And especially if you meet a boy, befriends him the first thing he will ask is “Do you have a boyfriend” and if the answer is yes then directly or indirectly the question would come up “Are you a virgin”. And in some cases this is not even asked it is assumed that you had sex because you had a boyfriend and if for heaven sake you had said “NO”, then you are screwed big time. “What”, “Why”,”How” etc.etc. And even worse, if you show temper sometimes or you have moodswings then they will whisper to each other “She is just frustrated, she should go and have some sex”. And some if they claim to be your well wishers will come directly to you and tell you that “You don’t know what you are missing, half of your worries will go, just go and have some sex”.
Now, I really don’t understand that if I do not judge my so called friends of having one night stands or even sleeping with random guys then who gave them the right to judge me for not having sex. Yes I am a virgin but that is completely the matter of choice and not shock like sleeping with random guys is your lifestyle, your choice. I am not talking about moral values. No, not at all. It is just that I didn’t believed in pre marital sex. That has been my mindset. Now are you going to judge me for who I am. Am I a frustrated person or some creep. Why can’t people treat sex as a normal subject. It’s more like human desires than human values. Values are what, things that our conscience allow us to do and the things it does not. So, if some people decides to have one night stands, it’s perfect. May be they think it is alright and that’s perfectly fine. That does not make them having a bad character. Character is all about doing wise and good deeds not having sex in or out of marriage.
If in today’s world I am the one who does not think about sex, masturbates or watches porn, does all that make me abnormal. No, why I decided to open up about all this is because it’s been a while when I have been meeting people all around getting amused of me not indulging in sexual activity. We as a people should take sex lightly and normally. If someone is having it with 10 guys at a time its ok. If someone is waiting for the perfect one it’s ok. And if someone does not have it entire life its ok. Stop judging people for the choices they have made in life. At the end, everyone has a battle to fight. I hope someday people get some wisdom in life. If not also atleast still I am hopefull.
Lots of Love
Stay blessed and spread all the positivity you can
Tripts.
Tripts 