Infidelity OR Finding love after marriage

Now, this is strange of me writing a blog on infidelity, however, I dont call it infidelity I say it to find love after marriage. Earlier, if you would have met me 10 years before, I would have bashed you right, left and centre. I still remember how much I hated Sridevi for marrying Boney Kapoor because for me she was a homebreaker. People will not agree to me and I will agree to their disagreement because I myself never believed in it and if you ask me I myself would never do that to any other girl or get involved with a married person, however, as an individual if you ask me about it I would say there is nothing wrong in it.

Yes, I know I have raised eyebrows of many by making such a statement but why is it wrong or who are we to pass on the judgement. We as a society is pure judgemental and that is what we know best to do, but do we really care. Do we really extend a helping hand to the person in need. No, but to crticise, ridicule, judge we all are there. We have only one life to live and we have full right to live it the way we want and if after marriage we find love elsewhere it is okay to move ahead and embrace that love of ours. Why to bother what people will say, will they guarantee to take care of your happiness always NO. In my opinion, if you are married, there are no signs of abuse and your husband is also pretty descent still you feel no connection with him, and some one else enters your life and you feel driven towards him or her, why not embrace him/her. You have to live this life to fullest not just drag it like some animal. You are worried about people,they will talk for a day or two and then will get back to their regular selves. So please think about what is right now infront of you, may be tomorrow this also won’t be there and you will spend rest of your life with guilt and regret and unhappiness.

I know many people will be angry reading this post that I am supporting Infidelity, no not at all,I am supporting Love. If love is not there, rest everything is meaningless. What are you more concerned about – the people questioning me here? The seven promises you made while marriage. or the vows you have taken as per different religion of marriage, and what about a living being, you don’t think that the person should be more important than any promises you made.The happiness should matter. If a person is unhappy but everyday is getting up with an emptiness inside, will that justify your promises. Problem with all of us is that our entire lives we are just saving our values, morals, and god knows what on the stake of one life. In my view a life is above all anything on this goddam earth. And if you talk about GOD then our body is our god, god is in us. If we can keep our being happy, all the promises are fullfiled automatically.

So folks what are you waiting for, lisiten to your heart don’t wait anyone to tell you whats right and whats wrong. There is no such thing as right or wrong. The thing which is right for me can be wrong for you and vice versa. So live your life full without any regrets.

See ya until next time my lovelies ❤