victim card – Tripts

Kangana Ranaut… Perfect example why education is a must!!!

Well the title seems offensive and derogatory. Sorry for it but as far as Kangana is concerned in her language “Who cares” 🙈

Since long I wanted to write about her but something was stopping me. But today I thought to express myself rather than keeping in. As this is what she does. So Ms. Kangana thinks it is her birth right to talk on almost all the relavant and irrelevant things happening around us. Well it is good to voice out your opinion but in a descent manner. She almost targets everyone in her post who is not of her view. Targeting is also acceptable but using such foul and crass language is just bizzare.

And the amazing part is that she actually thinks highly of herself. She is the epitome of superiority complex. And the best example is her Twitter intro. It always makes me laugh and sometimes a thought crosses my mind that she shouldn’t have been given national award and to make the matters worse she got Padma Shree award too. No no not jealous of her. She is a talented actress no doubt but now she only considers herself to be the only actress who makes Bollywood movies worth watching and who is fighting with all the biggies still surviving in this big bad world, why because she is a “DIVA”. No one can beat her and no one can even stand next to her because she is that talented that no one to dare to come near her. This is her mindset.

There is a thing called humility, compassion, kindness, being humble, polite. These are the virtues which am sure she has not heard. I doubt she barely respect anyone. It was her good luck that Tanu weds Manu and Queen worked because I have seen her earlier movies, she has also done some b grade movies when she was setting her foot in Bollywood and am very sure if these fims won’t have worked she would be ready to work with Ram Gopal Verma forget the 3 khans she is seen always bashing. She started dating Aditya when she wanted to make contacts and when she became leading actress made the affair public gaining public sympathy as she knows when and how to use victim card very well.

It is high time she should learn to be humble and polite, she has long way to go. She is talented and will be getting movies no doubt but to go long way you need to be a good human being because this arrogance will not take you long way.

Anyways this was not my anger just my views as to why this creature even exists😂

Spread kindness

Tripts❤️

Self Discipline

Set your life on fire and seek those who fan your flames, the translation of that is don’t be hanging with the people that don’t help you shine, the prerequisite for spending time with any person is that they nourish and inspire you, they feed your flames, look around, look to the people around, the people that you spend time with are gonna make or break dreams. Everybody don’t deserve to be around you. You got a defend your life with your life, so who are the people in your life that are fanning your flames.

The people who shout out loud say some encouraging stuff, funnily are those who are not willing to make their dreams come true. And it’s actually ironic everybody wants to go heaven but nobody wants to die. And it comes to the conclusion that Self Discipline is the centre of all material success. You cannot win the war against the world if you can’t win the war against your own mind.

When you are in victim mode you are stuck in suffering, the road to power is in taking responsibility. Your heart, your life, your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone. Taking responsibility, accepting responsibility is not an admission of guilt, taking responsibility is a recognition of the power that you seized when you stop blaming people. It’s not you are letting somebody who wronged you off the hook like taking responsibility is an act of emotional self defence, taking responsibility is taking your power back

And if it makes sense to even 1 percent, it’s like half the battle won already 😊

Me too or Tool to smash all “Men”

For many it seems very insensitive for a female to say this, but let’s really understand what it is all about. This word first came in light in 2006 by the social activist Tarana Burke where a little girl confided in her about her molestation and she later regretted that she should have said Me too which means if someone talks about her child abuse or any kind of sexual assault, to make her feel comfortable you can simply utter Me too that is that don’t worry I also have faced similar situation in life and you are not alone. That is it but it has been taken to some other level to satisfy ones own vendetta. Sad but true.

Personally, I do not believe in Mee too movement. I am not saying that all those coming forward has not suffered any such incident in their lives. They may have gone through such trauma, but there are some women who try to milk the situation. Isn’t it sad, we try to take opportunity of being a women. Trust me whenever these incidents happened with the so called “Victims” they had chance to go to police and unmask the culprits but they rather chose to keep quiet and open up after few years. Or let say they couldn’t go due to some x,y,z reason but now what is the point of coming forward after years and doing social media trials, and even if after so many years you think of opening up then also they will not go to police but what will prefer writing on social platforms. Major question is WHY??? How will it benefit you. Someone sexually assaulted you then why not taking police help to punish them. By coming on social media you just want to take revenge, that is crystal clear, you have no agenda in mind to get them punished. Then it becomes a reason to satisfy your personal motives.

Like for example in Vinta Nanda case, she herself has stated in her interview which could be verified as it is in public domain that when Alok Nath harassed her she kept quiet because she herself was struggling and wanted to make her mark in the industry so that means women also agrees to certain level for their personal gains, this is just one example I quoted there are many such cases, but my only point is that stop maligning Men out there. Women today are not weak. Stop presenting yourselves to be vulnerable. If you have been molested please speak up at the right time and do not wait for 3 to 4 years because that ways even if there are some genuine ones they will fade. I hope am making some sense to some people atleast. Being a women I strongly condemn this movement called #MeToo!!!

Love

Tripts❤️